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Saturday, 07 March 2009

"what did I say?" "follow your word and be true." "what did you do?" "well, what I wanted to do."

Wednesday, 25 February 2009

I'm done trying To convince you that I'll never go Cause we're all used up

On Love, dating, and all that other clique and abused stuff.
Getting them...

1) Dating is meant to find your future Spouse. It is not an experiment, I promise you don't need a test run with every guy you have mutual intrest in. Don't agree? Read on.
2) Before you even once say "Will you be my girlfriend?" or accept a guys offer, you need to be almost completely sure of what you want and why. This does not mean planning out the intricate details of how many hours you will eventually want to work, if you are going to be a vegetarian, or if you want one dog or five. Do you need someone who will always listen in respectful silence, or isn't afraid to offer advice or a helping hand? Do you mind smoking, guys/ girls who have had 30+ girlfriends/ boyfriends, non-virgins, virgins, or somebody who has OCD? Is your faith, morals, family values in top priority? And most importantly, who Do You Want To Be? Not who you are. This is all about the long haul, the journey, where do you want to be and by what means do you want to get there?
3) Any love possibilty should be a friend first and foremost. You need to really know someone, their likes and dislikes, beliefs, hobbies, unusual and somewhat repulsive habits... and not through the blinders of a "You are so cute, Im going to stalk you." crush. You should be able to talk to them, and they should be able to know what you like to talk about.
Keeping them...
1) Listen, talk, listen, talk... work on really getting deep, really getting the nitty gritties, before you delve into the physical extras. Open and Honest. You should know this already.
2) Don't worry about problems before they come. Yes you might be planning on different colleges, but you dont know what is really gonna happen till you get there. Don't fears and worries dictate your next move.
3) Say what you need to say. Praise God for John Mayer. This doesn't mean lashing out in anger, but there is always the subtle way to say "You're stupid, fix it" without neccesarily attacking your love. Even if it's one little thing you wish they would know or do differently. Say it. It is more damaging for a relationship to be supressive than it is to offer some constructive critism. And for heaven's sake, This Goes for Guys Too.
Enough for now. Comments! I want to know how you feel and What You Would Add.
Love
1) Love does not fail. Either you always will or you never did. .

Tuesday, 24 February 2009

It never comes easily, and when it does I'm already gone.

'I'm not laughing.' I was actually crying. 'And please don't laugh at me now, but I think the reason it's so hard for me to get over this guy is because I seriously believe David was my soul mate.'
'He probably was, [Richard said]. Your problem is you don't understand what that word means. People think a true soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave. And thank God for it.'"
I have a best guy friend who's serious girlfriend of several years just left him. She was a lovely girl and would have been my top pick for him if I had to choose. He is devestated, but I think more than anything this has given him time to stop and think. So this one is all for him, best wishes to you dear.

Friday, 09 January 2009

I tried to find the logic logically

Okie Dok. Yeah I know I havent posted here in forever, Ill get around to it eventually. But Ive come across the website Day Zero, inspiring people to reach their goals over about 2.75 years. Check out there site and then my personal list and updates ( http://www.checkgoallight.blogspot.com/) . Hope you all had a great holiday season

Friday, 05 December 2008

You really need to settle down, you really need to let it go.

Overheard:
"How about instead of *cough* "sucks" we use, "vociferously inhales"? *sighs*. I know it wont catch on."
"So then he takes me to the cafeteria and there's this huge wedding cake, right? And he looks at it and is like, "oh whoops, sorry", and then he uses the icing to cross out your name so it reads, "Will you marry me Liz?"

cousin: "Well that's not bad, Romeo and Juliet were only like, 13 and 14 or something."
my mom: "And that would explain the melodramatic sucide in the end."

girl 1 to girl 2: "If it wasnt for the whole moral thing I would definitely have a baby right now."
*whole class looks up from their work and turns to her*
girl 2 to red-faced girl 1: *whispers* Well at least they know you have morals.

Girl to her friend: "Why are you writting my name on my jeans? Are implying that I need my name on my pants? Like Im going to lose them here at school or something?
<" Uhhhh, well, yeah, bascially." *hands back pen*
>"Oh.... well thanks then."

"Holy crap and a half, there's a star on my fricken Double Bubble!"